Updated March 24th, 2023
I've tried being nice, but apparently, some men seem to think I'm just playing coy. When I say NO MEN, that is EXACTLY what I mean. No exceptions. End of story. NO negotiating with terrorists. So sad, but no means no. Ladies, please feel free to message me anytime.
Men, I readily admit, I do not relate to men as you would seemingly want or hope that I might. Part of that is due to identifying as a lesbian, but also because I just do not think as you do. I may have lived as a man for most of my life, but it does not mean I understand you, relate to you or talk about the things you would like to talk about; Friendships with men are difficult for me, and if I am neither sexually interested in men nor able to relate to them, then I see very little purpose in befriending them. So asking to be my friend here will serve no purpose. So don't expect much attention from me.
Hi! I'm Cadence, a few friends here call me Peaches. I'm a 46-year-old trans-woman. I'm non-op (except for eventual Facial Feminization Surgery and breast augmentation. Divorced in 2012, single since 2018. I’ve been on HRT since 2015 and full-time since 2018) None of my pics are Faceapp, and I have a couple of polished photos by the photographer, and often use a makeup artist for some shoots. I'm a lesbian, Mommy, Domme/ Dominant personality with a very small, almost invisible swing side. I am actively looking for a sincere, real, meaningful relationship with a trans woman/ CISFemale. I'm not too concerned about what the relationship "looks like" so long as it's meaningful and sincere. Open to poly relationships, open to swinging relationships, open to open relationships, and an "ethical slut"... seeking women/ trans-women for potentially more. I'm not here for Any sort of cutesy roleplay, or cyber. What I'm seeking is something real, not any sort of game. I know I'm not every trans-girls cup of tea, the key is finding the one who sees me as her shot of tequila!!!
I am a sapiosexual and a demisexual. I'm here looking for authentic connections, the types of connections I desire, and always starting with friendship first; people who are willing to demonstrate effort and time to build at least a substantive friendship if nothing else. If one of your moves is calling me baby early on, and trying to create a sense of intimacy, that will not help you. Things like that need to develop organically, too much too soon is a turnoff. If you tend to lose interest, ghost people, or not hold up your part of the conversation, please keep moving. I won't chase you, I do not play those games, I beg for attention from no one.
Usage of words such as tranny, crossdresser, sissy, transvestite, Drag Queen, shemale, girly-boy(i), trap, ladyboy(I), gurl, slut, whore, or bitch...or any other such derivative words directed AT ME may result in my simply blocking you. They are so far from how I as an individual, identify; they would be completely inaccurate. Thank you for respecting the identity I've spent a lifetime getting to. This does not mean that I am not supportive of anyone who does identify as such, however.
Other Social Media- NO men, please.